This is due to the intense drive to succeed and they put too much pressure on themselves, thus resulting in self-doubt however, the natural optimism and enthusiasm overtakes this and the underlying insecurity may never be known to others. Too often Aries will say whatever pops into their head and usually end up regretting it later! Includes keywords, planetary rulers, symbols, elements and modalities. Aggressive, self-centered, blunt, pushy, inconsistent, selfish, loud, domineering, bad-tempered Their rather aggressive and stubborn nature can sometimes be hard to handle. To be number one How to Spot Them: Find out the Aries zodiac sign love compatibility. Dating her means giving her all the attention she needs, giving her time and constant effort to prove there is love behind the act. Brave, powerful, direct, independent, strong sense of justice, innocent, assertive, fearless, head-strong People born under the Aries zodiac sign people love to be winners. Aries Element: Do not however, act as if you don't care about him.