The "grass could be greener" mentality could make these men less satisfied and less committed to maintain the marriage. I finger her, lick her pussy, eat her ass, get my cock sucked, suck her toes, finger her ass, make her rub my ass. But the role of physical attractiveness in well-established partnerships, such as marriage, is somewhat of a mystery. Women seeking a lifelong mate might do well to choose the guy a notch below them in the looks category. I usually fuck my wife like a pornstar now. I find my wife to be very attractive. My daughter who is 22 years old is very tech savvy. McNulty suggests wives mirror, in some ways, the level of support they get from husbands.